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Post by wdwfanatic on Aug 28, 2006 19:47:30 GMT -5
Well I have. I absolutely hate it. Roller coasters are my safe haven. I really get mad when I see people bullying other people. Finally today I stood up to one and told him to go away and to go in his house and said, "No, I don't want to. " Finally he did go in but not after bothering me a whole lot. He started telling lies and fake crap about me. I put up with it for a long time and finally I got mad and told him off. Next time will be different. If he does it again I might just lose it.
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Post by Coasterdude5 on Aug 28, 2006 20:08:22 GMT -5
Hey, keep your sanity, I know how that feels but trust me, it passes. In fourth grade, there were a couple of people like that, and now, they're either nerds or have no friends. Whatever you might want to do, just get it out some other way, (like here!), go run, excercise, or something else to release your stress. For me, it's running or swimming, for you, it could be something totally different. Just something to get your mind off of it. But don't do anything you will regret doing later, just plain and simple: ignore, sometimes that sounds harder than it really is, if he see's that it doesn't bother you, they will stop eventually.
If it gets bad enough, go tell a counselor or something. If his behavior is kinda eradic (sp?) chances are they can handle it without ever using your name.
Sorry if I sound preachy, but I've had friends who have been in the same situation and have made mistakes that they've regreted down the road.
And if you ever need some friends to "vent" to, we're all here!
Hope that helps!
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Post by wdwfanatic on Aug 28, 2006 20:27:35 GMT -5
A lot of people really dislike him. I'm talking to one of my friends on the phone right now about him. She says he trips her for no good reason. None of my friends like him. I usually play football to take out my frustration but it doesn't work.
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Post by phazan on Aug 29, 2006 17:56:18 GMT -5
Well, John is right. When I was in 8th grade, there was this kid who would find people and just try to make fun of them as much as they could and make people feel stupid. Although it doesn't seem like it, it gets them back in a way that they have no friends. I mean, NO ONE liked this kid, pretty much after everyone got to know him, everyone hated him. Try to imagine your life with not even one friend. That's how it was with this kid after everyone found out what he likes to do, and that is to tease other kids. So in a way, they are pretty much punishing themselves. IMO, not having one friend is worse than getting beat up for a day.
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Post by asdflkahsflasd on Aug 29, 2006 20:34:08 GMT -5
Happens to me all the time. People make fun of my Jew nose (I sure do mention that a lot, eh?) and...uh...that's it...
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Post by phazan on Aug 29, 2006 23:25:56 GMT -5
Oh yeah, I forgot to say something earlier. Also, what helps is to kind of not say anything at all and just look at them like they are idiots or something and don't say anything. Act like it doesn't affect you, although no one can't say being made fun of doesn't hurt without lieing about it. Just look at them like they are dumb, and it almost backfires and makes them feel like "Ah, that was a stupid joke...."! Trust me, it works lol.
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Post by wdwfanatic on Aug 29, 2006 23:30:46 GMT -5
^^Jew nose...?
The thing is this guy has lots of friends. Or fake friends. You know how some popular kids have "friends" that always talk about them beind their backs? He's like that. I kknow something to do when he does what he does. He always does this thing where he twrils his hair and sitcks out his tongue. All my friends think it's hilarious. Not joking funny but they think it makes him even more stupid than bullying kids makes him.
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Post by wdwfanatic on Sept 8, 2006 19:08:48 GMT -5
Sorry for the double post but I might invite him over tommorrow. He made need a friend. I mean, his mom has been through tons of relationships so that might be hard on him.
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